all right, so i have a relationship question. my friends here would know that i've been seeing a guy back home for over 8 months now, but now that i've moved to go to college we're seeing other people. so he and i keep seeing people and hooking up, etc, and we tell each other when we do anything so we have nothing to hide. my question to all of you is, do you think it's better for me to want to know what he's doing, or to just not know? cos when i do know, it hurts. and my roommate is convinced that he does things just cos i make him jealous when i find a guy out here, so maybe he'd rather not know, too.
what do you guys think? which would hurt less: knowing he's kissing a girl back home, or being lied to and everything that comes with that?